Saturday, May 3, 2008

How do U spill d beans 2 Girl's Parents?

Ok, whoever knows my plan knows this question is personal to me. YES YES, I am planning to do so!

The thing is... how should I start opening my mouth? Hmmm... We also need to understand no one BKM (best known method) suits every single person. Why you may ask? Cos everyone has different parents! And they would have different mindsets and preferences! Well... I'm still struggling here, sighhhh

PS - All my close friends/colleagues, pls do not gossip or spread my situation, pls pls thanks!

Monday, November 19, 2007

Topic: Am I in a healthy relationship? (part1)

Sometimes it feels impossible to find someone who's right for you - and in return, who thinks you're right for him or her! So when it happens, you're usually so psyched that you don't even mind when all the little things (that used to bother you so much) happened.

It's totally normal to look at the world through rose-colored glasses in the early stages of a relationship. But for some people, those rose-colored glasses turn into blinders that keep them from seeing that a relationship isn't as healthy as it should be.

So... what makes a healthy relationship?
Well hopefully you and your significant other are treating each other fabulously! You're not so sure if that's the case? Take a step back from the great sensation of being swept off your feet (I'm not sure what's the description for guys :-p) and think about whether your relationship has these qualities:

1. Mutual respect
2. Trust
3. Honesty
4. Support
5. Fairness/Equality
6. Separate identities
7. Good communication


I'll elaborate more on each of the quality mentioned above in Part2... :-)

Saturday, November 10, 2007

Let's get it started... warm up post, hehe

Now... why did I start this blog? Well, honestly the idea came from my girlfriend (no no we're NOT having problem with our own relationship, mind you!). One fine day, I just asked her opinion to suggest a good (hopefully HOT!) topic to create a blog for, and this IS the topic (again, hopefully!).

So, to everyone and anyone reading this post now... hope to get your support to kick start this! Let's all share our experience/s (of course, it's up to you the depth of sharing you'd like to... not too private? not too scary?! hehe), the UPs and DOWNs...

Again... THANKS! Looking forward to more posts and comments